In-House Response To: He Cheats On Me But Doesn’t Want Me To Leave Him

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Yesterday we published a relationship dilemma of a reader who has been dating a guy for three years and found out he’s cheating on her with another girl from their church. If you missed that, you can read it HERE.  Here is our own in house response to the issue.

Male Perspective: Normally when person cheats on you, you leave him or her because there is every tendency that they are  going to do it again but there are some people worth fighting for.

It’s up to you to first weigh their bad against their good and determine if they are worth fighting for. When you come across such people that are worth fighting for and you are certain that they are truly sorry for hurting you, you do not let someone else ruin your relationship.

Don’t expect things to be the same should you get back with him but cause after a cheating episode,  things are usually never the same again. There will be changes which can either be good or bad depending on how you both handle the situation. You might have trust issues but as earlier said,  if you don’t find yourself being able to trust them again due to their actions,  it’s best to walk away.  His actions not words will show if he is genuinely sorry and willing to make it work between the both of you.

Female Perspective:  If he is having a second thought about you having cheated on you, it will be in your best interest to leave before he drops the bomb on you. You don’t want to be a second fiddle. Protect your heart.

Thank you all those that commented and left responses to help a fellow reader in her dilemma.

Please be reminded that we do not publish the identity of those that send in their relationship problems and we advice that you have only mature comments and responses to the mail as rude comments would not be approved. You can also send in your relationship issues by sending us an email via 

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PenAStory is a group of young individuals with a passion for literature who have decided to come together to write under one platform. We seek to educate, inform as well as entertain our readers. Also, because we are targeting young literature lovers, we would like to touch on other interests of their lives hence the relationship category and because we all need a bit of motivation in our lives, we decided inspiration won't be so bad
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