I have been dating this girl for about six months now and before anybody says I don’t know what I want, I have to say I am very certain that I am not in love with her. I simply got into the relationship because of ‘konji’ but in truth I don’t see myself spending the rest of my lives with her. Being in the relationship leaves me caged and unhappy but I can tell she is truly in love with me. My unhappiness in the relationship and inability to love her back made me seek advise from a friend who said I should break up with girl since I know I don’t love her so that I stop wasting both of our times.
My problem now is that in the six months that we have been dating, I have to say we have gotten close and while it may not be love, I have gotten attached to her and breaking up, I find that I miss her. My friend advised that I stop talking to her for a while so that we can both heal before trying to maintain a friendship because she has been pleading with me not knowing the true cause of the relationship.
I don’t know what to do about the situation because while I don’t want to remain in a relationship where I am unhappy, I also find myself thinking of her atimes but not as the love of my life or what have you. My friend says you don’t date someone for six months and not get attached to them and that this is why I am missing her and not to confuse it with love since I am certain I don’t love her.
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