Advice Me: I Don’t Love My Ex But I Have Been Thinking Of Him

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Dear PAS readers, this is a tricky situation of not loving someone but seemingly thinking of them, please read about this lady’s predicament and drop your mature comments only. Thank you. 

I have this issue that has been bothering me for a while now. An ex of I have been talking a lot recently and we laugh and talk just like the old times. The only problem is that I know he is still very much attracted to me even though he has a new girlfriend. Our relationship ended well over two years ago and I can tell that his new girl makes him happy.

When we started talking again, I noticed he started acting funny which knowing the person I have, I interpreted as his still having feelings for him. I am currently single and therefore enjoy the attention although it’s nothing serious on my part. I also find my thoughts straying to my ex sometimes.

I dont’ want to be the reason for why his relationship ends with this other girl by playing him because I know he is not the one for me and it is nothing more than just enjoying the attention. He calls me up a lot lately and we also chat a lot, what can I do to remain friends with him without necessarily breaking his relationship?

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3 Responses to Advice Me: I Don’t Love My Ex But I Have Been Thinking Of Him

  1. Gflat says:

    U r inlove madame…but don’t go back to your ex he will Bleep u hard n dump you later


  2. Cruz says:

    If you really don’t want to scatter their relationship ,reduce your time with him and the kind of jokes and play u two play together.Because one day John Thomas may disrespect himself and bring about stories that touches the soul


  3. Fool In Love says:

    Respect his new girlfriend and stay away from him. If he wants to break the relationship with her, he needs no excuse. He should just do it. Then if he has feelings for you he can declare them with clean slate, not by jumping from one girl to another.


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