On last week’s edition of Tell Tale Thursday, we shared the story of a PAS Reader whose girlfriend is dating another guy she has been lying to him is her brother. Not only that, this alleged brother is also approved of by her mother and she believes for a relationship between her and our distressed reader to work, her mother needs to approve. If you missed that, you can read it HERE. As usual we want to thank all those that dropped their comments. Below is what our in-house-relationship writers thinks on the issue.
We thank you for sharing your relationship issue with us and we do hope that we can be able to help you with our advice. Do be reminded that we are only giving our opinions from a neutral perspective and the ultimate decisions rests in your hands.
It is a tricky situation when a female begins to lie to you as to her relationship with the opposite sex because what it means is that she is not giving you reason to trust her. This is the 21st century and if truly she loves, making a decision shouldn’t be so hard although we have to respect that we are in an African society and she has to respect her mother’s feelings. However, her mother didn’t tell her to have sex with this guy, she did it of her own volition, sit her down and ask her what she really wants. Knowing who you have been dating, determine if it is not that something is going wrong with that relationship is why she wants to settle with you. If she still claims to love you and believes you, let her tell you everything else she might be adding because trust is very important in any relationship. Meet her mother with her if you have intentions of marrying her or being serious with her so that you can understand how her mother reacts first hand. Goodluck in your endeavourrs.
Your girlfriend is feigning confusion and giving excuses. You’re in turn void of trust for her. How much longer would you live in uncertainty. If she loves you truly like she claims, her love won’t be divided regardless.
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