Advice Me: I Broke Up With My Girlfriend Because Of A New Girl But I Sometimes Miss Her

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Dear PAS readers, this is a tricky love situation problem that we have on our hands and it involves an undergraduate who broke up with his girlfriend because he met a new girl. Read the issue at hand and drop your mature comments only.

I am having this issue of not knowing whether I am still in love with my ex-girlfriend or not. We have been dating for a while now and things were going fine but then it appeared the spark died in our relationship and this was further intensified when I met this new girl. I have been having sex with the new girl regularly. Did I mention that my ex-girlfriend and I are course mates?

Please it is important that I mention that I was the one that brushed up my ex-girlfriend and now she seems to be very cool. After I broke up with her, I noticed that she didn’t seem to mind too much because she has been happy and all. I like the new girl a lot which is one of the main reasons why I broke up with my ex but then I still find myself missing ex? Is this normal. I don’t want her back or anything but I am surprised that someone I practically made better is so unaffected by our breakup.

Please note that I love the new girl and don’t want the old one back.  I need advice on this.

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6 Responses to Advice Me: I Broke Up With My Girlfriend Because Of A New Girl But I Sometimes Miss Her

  1. Anita says:

    You are one of the unserious human I have ever heard of, despite the fact that u have a new girlfriend, u still feeling uneasy she didn’t break down because u broke up with her. I beg of you, go and seek for forgiveness.


  2. FirstKing says:

    A very confused young man i must say.


  3. Full Street says:

    Confuscious shud be ur middle name


  4. Damilola says:

    Like you said, the spark in your relationship died. It is probable that your ex also did what you did by finding a new partner without your knowledge. But your wanting to see her breakdown is likely due to the fact that you are not dating this new girl because you like her, but rather because you wanted a connection you and your ex had. Also, the fact that she is your course mate would haunt you till you graduate so be ready for that.


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