Dear PAS readers, would you rather date a good looking guy that treats you like thrash or an ugly guy who treats you like a princess? This is the case of Funke, a 27 year old girl who sent in her email, read her experience and share your thoughts below:
Good day, my name is Funke, a 27 year old girl that is considered attractive and smart by men. The only problem with it is that the kind of men that I attract are usually not the type of men that I want. In my entire dating history, I have only date three men that I genuinely would say fell into my specification but they ended up breaking my heart in their different ways.
Twice now, I have dated two guys also that are not in my stereotype of my kind of guy but I realised about these two guys is that they treated me better than the ones I was crazily in love with. While ‘my type’ treated me like thrash sometimes and could leave me to myself for days or weeks on end, the ugly ones treated me like I am the Queen of England herself.
I hope to get married soon but I am seriously confused because I have been single for sometime because I have been convincing myself I don’t want to settle for less. The guys that have been asking for my hand don’t fall into the so good-looking category. Should I keep waiting for my prince charming or go ahead with a guy that is not so great in looks but I believe loves me.
I know some people would say looks are not everything but I would like to remind people with such opinions that this is the man I would spend the rest of my life with and waking up to an ugly man daily can have its psychological effects if you are someone that likes good things.
Thanks in advance for your help.
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