Advice Me: I Feel Hopeless And It Feels Like Being A Virgin Is A Crime

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Dear PAS readers, so it has been a while we had a Tell Tale Thursday issue but today we bring you the issue of a young lady who is going through some turbulent emotions in her life. The young woman is having feelings of insecurity and lack of self-worth and needs help on how to get her life on track. Do read her issue as sent and be mature and thoughtful in your comments.

Read below:

Pls keep my identity hidden. Am 24 years old and the fifth child of my parents with three younger siblings, when i was growing up i always believe in proper home bringing and have so much faith in myself, but i find out that after graduating from high school life seems unfair most especially to me. My love life is nothing to write home about. After breaking up with my ex about two years ago, I find it difficult to love someone else and i can’t bring myself to love anyone. Beside that, carrier is nothing else to write home about as well. Mostly all my friends have graduated and now doing their NYSC so is my younger brother and am here still battling with admission.

I can’t really blame my parent but sometimes i wish i was someone else’s child cause i deserve more and am more brilliant,smart and intelligent than most of my friends. Have kept myself up till now and i don’t think i can anymore cause sometimes it seems like being a virgin is a crime or something. Funny but that is how i feel. I remember how i will cry myself to sleep countless number of time without anyone knowing. The thing is this year is coming to an end without achieving anything and i don’t know what else to do cause the thought of suicide runs through my mind sometimes and i desperately needs help. Thanks, am Joan

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5 Responses to Advice Me: I Feel Hopeless And It Feels Like Being A Virgin Is A Crime

  1. Yomi says:

    We can epp u.

    Abi wat r friends for?


  2. Babs says:

    This is just sad


  3. Damibiz says:

    This is what i alway tell ladies,this virginity of a thing have to do with personal decision,if u decide to keep urself till u marry do it with out complaining,dont do it because people are doing it


  4. Master chi says:

    You feel say bad things dey happen to you because you be virgin. Madam if to sleep with man dey hungry you,,, jeje go sleep with man stop feeling like the world should bow to you because you are a virgin…
    You have misfortunes, look for ways to solve them and do not tie it to your virginity. Some persons are virgins and are successful too.

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