Advice Me: I Find It Hard To Love Any Man

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Hello PAS readers, on today’s edition of Tell Tale Thursday, we examine the issue of young girl of 20 years who has finds it hard to fall in love and thinks there is something wrong with her. Read her issue as she sent it in to us and drop your mature comments only. 

Hello admin, I would like my identity to be kept a secret. I am a girl of 20 yrs and all through my life I’ve  had only one serious r/ship which has been over for two yrs now, since then i haven’t been able to love anyone, my first r/ship ended on good terms so that’s not the problem and I also don’t feel anything for my ex, actually I broke off the r/ship but i just find it hard to love a guy again, am a 300L student but ever since I came to the university, with all the guys approaching me, I don’t feel anything for any of them even though most of them are really good.
All of my friends are dating right from our 100L but that’s not the case with me and I don’t want to start dating just cos everyone’s dating, i want to date because I love and respect someone so please help me out, what is a wrong with me and am not the “shy” type neither am I the “naughty” type, am just ME. Thanks.

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PenAStory is a group of young individuals with a passion for literature who have decided to come together to write under one platform. We seek to educate, inform as well as entertain our readers. Also, because we are targeting young literature lovers, we would like to touch on other interests of their lives hence the relationship category and because we all need a bit of motivation in our lives, we decided inspiration won't be so bad
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4 Responses to Advice Me: I Find It Hard To Love Any Man

  1. emeka says:

    You definitely need to talk to someone..maybe u still not emotionally cut out for a relationship now…like it’s not in ur top-list priority for now..


  2. Xendra says:

    hmmm! me too I want to know!!

    sure science must have a name for it, they going to say its some kind of disorder.


  3. Sandy says:

    U just haven’t found the right one!

    That’s it!!!


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