In House Response To: My Boyfriend Has Been There For Me Through Hard Times But I Don’t Love Him

In House Response To Advice Me Penastory

On our first edition of Tell Tale Thursday for the year 2017, we brought the relationship dilemma of Shalewa who has a boyfriend that cares deeply about her but she doesn’t feel the same for. She longs for another man while in a relationship with another and she sought advice. If you missed that, you can read it HERE. Thank you to all those who dropped their comments. You can find out what our in house relationship person thinks on the issue below:

I believe it will do much good to let your current boyfriend know how you feel or don’t feel about him. It’s almost equivalent to breaching the relationship but it is better for the both of you if you stopped pretending to love him when you don’t. However, I believe you’re matured enough to know that in this modern world, feelings don’t pay bills neither does love put food on your table. If you’ve found the guy that is willing to take care of you, why not stick with him? If however, you’re looking for someone whom you can love and is still willing to take care of you, then move on. I may not be able to tell you expressly what path to take because that is based on personal conviction. I advise you to weigh seriously the matter and choose wisely because this determines your future. Love doesn’t pay bills but neither should you let the fear of the unknown stop you from going after the better things you believe are out there.

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PenAStory is a group of young individuals with a passion for literature who have decided to come together to write under one platform. We seek to educate, inform as well as entertain our readers. Also, because we are targeting young literature lovers, we would like to touch on other interests of their lives hence the relationship category and because we all need a bit of motivation in our lives, we decided inspiration won't be so bad
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