Advice Me: I am Dating But Attracted To Two Other Men

Dear Readers,

It is with immense pleasure that I will like to inform you that PenAStory’s Tell Tale Thursday is back. I sincerely apologise for the long absence and hope that you have all been doing well since the category has been inactive. We are kick starting this category with the love relationship of Natasha. Kindly read her dilemma below and drop your mature advice.  

            My name is Natasha and I am twenty-three years old. I am currently a youth corper in Niger state. I was formerly based in Lagos before youth service took me to Niger state. While I was in Lagos state, I was in a relationship with a guy who later turned out to be unserious because he wasn’t giving me attention. I had to cut off our relationship when he was always giving me one excuse or the other about being busy. His lack of communication or physical presence for months made me realize being with him was a waste of my time. However, he isn’t the reason I am seeking for advice as I am sure I am done with that part of my life.

            My dilemma is that prior to starting my youth service, a friend of mine shared my contact with a guy who is based in Niger state and we got talking. We connected a lot as friends and when I finally came over to Niger, we met in person. There is a mutual attraction between us and he asked me to be his girlfriend. I have been single for about five months and I really like this dude whom I have been talking to for about two months now so I agreed to be his girlfriend. However, there are these other guys who are interested in me and my fear is that I may actually like one of them better than my current boyfriend. One of the other guys has a girlfriend and I don’t want to ruin his relationship or be tagged a boyfriend snatcher so I am fighting very hard to stay away from him. The other guy interested in me knows I have a boyfriend but is still interested in me.

            I really love my current boyfriend but I can’t help feeling these other attractions. Please advise me on what I can do to avoid cheating or ruining a good relationship. I am looking forward to getting your advice.

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3 Responses to Advice Me: I am Dating But Attracted To Two Other Men

  1. Kashy Baby says:

    Whoever that girl is..Pls pass this message to her.

    She only got 2 options here..

    #1. Break up with her current booboo first before jumping to another guy.


    #2. She must try to stop herself from this temptations..Men loves challenges, but once they get what they want from u,
    they will move on to another NUNU…


  2. Sashy says:

    she doesn’t no Wat she wants, any matured mind nos dat it’s impossible to hv d same level of luv for 2 or 3 pple at a time, u must definitely luv one more dan d odas, if at a certain age, ur mind stl displays d same level of luv for 2,3 or more pple at a time, Dats a sign of immaturity, it doesn’t no Wat it wants yet, she shud sit down and tink well, no one cn make d choice 4 her, she is d one 2 wear d shoes.


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